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Leading Lady: The Positive Side Of VULNERABILITY

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A lot of times, we consider it as something very bad to be vulnerable. Because of this particular notion, many people have not taking time to examine the positive side of being vulnerable. Vulnerability is a period you let down your defense, arsenals, the periods you let them down. The fact that you let them down does not make you a weakling – No! Women are bold, strong and audacious. But for us to achieve our leadership destiny, we have to be vulnerable. To lead as a leading lady, give the window of vulnerability a chance, let down your guard, your defense.

Let us examine the story of Joyce Meyer. She is a worthy example of someone who was vulnerable; but chose to encourage others with her experience and gave the window of vulnerability a chance. Make it your strong talking point, maximize it and learn from it. To become the strong and audacious woman, you have to wake up and address issues. Break the walls down. It’s okay to cry, vent your anger about issues, and learn your lessons from those issues. These issues can become a character flaw later in your life.

What happens then is that you start decorating the issue and it ends up being a mountain around you things that should have being a Passover. Find someone you can trust to talk about these issues. If single, talk to a faithful friend. Don’t build a defense around it. Joyce Meyer talks about it and breaks down the wall of defense. The event should become a history or a story. For some, it could be rape incidence or an abuse in which case you frown whenever a man wants to talk to you. You deserve joy. Let down your defense. Be the joyful, happy, hearty you that you have been in the past.

Many of us need spiritual help much more than a sorry about the issue. Call to the Holy Spirit, he is ready to help you. Let go of the experiences and baggage that are holding you back. It’s okay to talk and cry about it. What happens when you don’t talk about it is that you get deeper in the pit and memory of the event.  It is important to let go and let God. Forgive yourself, let him heal you. The window of vulnerability is a period in our lives when we say enough is enough, I have carried this load for too long, Go to the presence of God because in his presence, he is ready to give you rest. Talk to him.

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